Friday, October 28. 2011
The Catholic Church's teachings on assisted reproduction techniques like artificial insemination and IVF are wildly unpopular, even among some Catholics. These important teachings are often misunderstood and painted as unfeeling, judgmental attacks on couples who are infertile. This could not be farther from the truth. The Church has always had the best interest of the child in mind, not what the parents want or feel they need. The Church acknowledges the very simple fact that we all deserve to be conceived out of an act love, gestated and nurtured by our biological mother, and born to our genetic mother and father. That is the way God intended it. (And if for some reason you don't believe in God, that is no doubt the way nature intended it.)Now that a generation of adults conceived by third parties are speaking out, we are learning that they are desperate to know and understand where they came from. Desperate to know the men and women whose gametes have made their lives possible and they are thwarted at every turn by a billion dollar fertility industry that wants to protect its interests.Lindsay of Confession of a Cryokid posted this photo and I believe you would be hard pressed to find a more eloquent statement of the heartbreak and frustration of children conceived with donor gametes. (Text follows)
I am a donor-conceived adult. Only about 10% of us even know the truth of our conception, the rest will forever be living a lie to themselves and their heirs. Our best interests and our lives are forever tied to an unregulated multi-billion dollar industry. We are threatened by the infertility industry and by society simply because we ask the question "who am I?". We are brainwashed and lied to by those who should care about us the most. Our entire lives are comprised of lies, even our birth certificates are fraudulent documents, nowhere mentioning that our biological father is a sperm donor, let alone his name.
Clinics and doctors are legally able to destroy any and all records pertaining the the creation of us, including the identity and medical history of our biological parent. Better records are kept of livestock than of us. We are the most sought after human commodity in modern times, and we are the product of a financial transaction.
Countries and states across the globe are rectifying this century old status quo and stepping up against the infertility industry and demanding changes in anonymity, payment, and the treatment of the adults already conceived through "donated gametes". Yet America refuses to listen and instead turns a blind eye to the grave injustices being played out on us in compensation for allowing an industry to function solely by its own self-set regulations that are tipped in their favor.
I work very hard but I will never have millions of dollars. I will never have the political power that comes with this wealth and the ability to sway politicians to my point of view. I will never have the lobbying power that is attached to the infertility industry.
All I have is my voice. I am the 99%. We are the 99%.
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